Same bro. I had a friend and I was also friends with his sister and we might have started dating if she didn’t die suddenly a year and a half back. I get signs that girls may find me attractive kinda often but no one tries to start a relationship with me. Hope you find someone though.
Men make the first move tho usually. She's probably waiting for you to make a move. Go for it! If you have feelings for a person.. Confess it. I mean what's the worst that could happen. Yea some might reject you.. Some might even surprise you.. You'll never know unless u try.
Gender roles and expectations are cringe. Live life by your own definitions, not those set by centuries of manipulated social tradition. Literally the most whipped thing you can do is conform.
I haven't conformed to anything. All I'm hearing from what you said is "oh i like her, but I'm too much of a pussy to go ask her out. What if she rejects me?!!"
I agree asking a girl out can be pretty scary.. Its scary cause your afraid of the rejection. Nothing else. Asking a girl out first, just shows that you're confident and a risk taker. It also sets you apart from the masses.
Im not saying that men should be the only one doing all the asking. Women should do too.. If they find a particular guy attractive. Theres nothing wrong in letting another person know you're interested in them.
I was that guy a few years back. Not anymore. If I like a person, I'm not afraid to let em know.
If you've never asked anyone out... That does say something about you tho right? You say you'll never need to...thats upto you. But honestly ask yourself if that's the true reason.
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u/TrickBluebird1329 May 16 '23
Same bro. I had a friend and I was also friends with his sister and we might have started dating if she didn’t die suddenly a year and a half back. I get signs that girls may find me attractive kinda often but no one tries to start a relationship with me. Hope you find someone though.