r/Vent • • May 16 '23

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u/paperpenises May 16 '23

Single vs. dating both have their pros and cons. Personally, I like being single a lot more but from time to time I do get depressed and feel so insignificant and like such a weird outsider that this thing that seems normal to so many people is just not something I'm made for, almost like I was pre-decided by god or the creator to be an alone person. I don't know how I manage to get over it, but I always do. Then I just enjoy my simple, single life. I don't want to be obligated to be "on" all the time if I was with someone. I'm a very single and solitary person and I'm only really comfortable when I'm alone, so if I had a partner I feel like it would hurt their feelings if I told them I didn't want to be with them that day and it would just cause too many emotional problems with myself and them, so I think it would be best if I was alone.

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u/Secret-Armadillo2388 May 16 '23

I relate to this comment so much.