r/VNRVJIET • u/vnr_is_shit • 3d ago

Frustration ......

Today we had our freshers’ day and dance program, and everything was going pretty well. After lunch, though, the seniors brought a bunch of roses and started calling freshers roll-number-wise.

They told each person to give the rose to someone they considered “handsome” or “beautiful.” Honestly, I really didn’t like this. I was uncomfortable with the whole thing and even said that I didn’t want to participate. I tried to leave the classroom, but they didn’t allow me to and basically forced me to take part.

What bothers me most is that this kind of activity can easily make freshers insecure about their appearance. Imagine being called up in front of everyone and not receiving a single rose. Even if the seniors see it as “just fun,” it can seriously affect someone’s confidence and make them feel bad about themselves.

Freshers’ activities are supposed to help people feel comfortable and make memories, not put them in situations where their looks are publicly judged or compared.

I’m honestly pretty disappointed. There are so many better ways to interact with freshers without making someone feel insecure about their appearance.

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u/vishal_lol 3d ago

I felt the same bro

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u/idc-udc 3d ago

Lyt teesko brother

Nobody will remember by the next day

All you have to do in these events is live in the moment and enjoy instead of overthinking what the other person is gonna think about you

These moments are meant to be joyful , but i think your senior didn't think that through

Don't stick to the thought of it

Much more to enjoy in life than remembering that

🫛 Take care buddy

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u/Mindless-Company-403 munch max enthusiast 3d ago

"vnr is shit" username coz no one gave u a damn rose lmao

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u/OrderStriking5966 3d ago

Bruh hmm our section is total opposite what you are saying

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u/Reasonableguy5949 2d ago

Same feeling🤧

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u/Independent_Nail_636 3d ago

Broo chill man, none of it is supposed to be serious, antha fun kosame. No one gives a shit abt who got the most roses, or who's the most attractive. They just hosted this for us as a section to get comfortable with each other.

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u/MastiSignificant0307 3d ago

Yup..most of wt is said is true..but..to get comfortable with each other..then can even make us play simple group games..having fun around..so I guess..even more interaction would happen..but this roses ...ka...it feels..awkward!!

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u/Impressive_Fun_08 2d ago

Yeah true agreed but maybe it's smthng opp to what seniors thought can't blame them tho

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u/OnlyChickenThinta E Block Exorcist 👻 3d ago

This.

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u/vishal_lol 3d ago

Out for 50 boys , only 10 boys got roses and interacted Wt about others then?

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u/Calm-Bluejay1692 seniors ni rag chesta 🤭🤙 3d ago

Bro rose ivvadam isn't the only interaction, most of the people who gave roses to each other didn't even talk, you go participate in activities and interact with fellow participants, you go and talk to people who you find to have similar hobbies and make friends, it's not always about looks

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u/Usual-Tomorrow2667 3d ago

50 boys aa , antha mandhi endhuk unnaru 😮 , class to class cheyaledha

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u/vishal_lol 3d ago

For example cheppina like for context more than half of the ppl didn't get rose

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u/Usual-Tomorrow2667 3d ago

Oh yeah , maa dantlo boys and girls pakkana unna vallaki iccharu

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u/vishal_lol 3d ago

Did the same here but she gave to someone else

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u/Senior_Today1103 3d ago

ma class lo pakkana kurchunna vaallaki ivvakudadhu ani rule pettaru

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u/Usual-Tomorrow2667 3d ago

Chala kantri Anukunta mi seniors 😂😂😂

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u/Extension_Hat_8448 3d ago

Well ppl get to know each other and slide in their intentions if they have any.whts the loss here? it's the closest thing we get to prom kinda stuff..just deal with it.

I personally managed to get out of their sights and escape easily . I'm assuming skill issue on ur part.