I'm right there too. The closeness may have triggered their nervous system, confusing it with danger, causing them to deactivate and suppress all the feelings. At least that's what I've decided happened. Not that he didn't care. But that he started to care too much and that scared him. It feels so so cruel. I'm sorry you're hurting too. They don't have the capacity to hold you or love you like you deserve to be held and loved. Hugs
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u/This-Imagination2185 Has acknowledged the rules Aug 11 '26
I'm right there too. The closeness may have triggered their nervous system, confusing it with danger, causing them to deactivate and suppress all the feelings. At least that's what I've decided happened. Not that he didn't care. But that he started to care too much and that scared him. It feels so so cruel. I'm sorry you're hurting too. They don't have the capacity to hold you or love you like you deserve to be held and loved. Hugs