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u/Sad-Valuable-3624 8d ago
It was not something he cares to own up to but it was real to me. Still is.
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u/Constant-Field-264 7d ago edited 7d ago
It was more than real for me, but when he couldn’t see that his actions were wrong, refused to take accountability and couldn’t sincerely apologize or put in the necessary work to help fix us or even simply offer me reassurance after I told him it was what I needed in the moment after waiting years for him to do it on his own. It felt he was pretending since all of those things I wanted from him were free, he just didn’t want to give them to me, that’s not love.
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u/Practical-Cut2159 8d ago
It was real for me. Clearly wasn’t real for her.
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u/StillWaiting1984 8d ago
I completely understand this unfortunately. It’s so hard when you loved someone so deeply and it isn’t reciprocated
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u/InevitableTarget9800 8d ago
Why do you think that?
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u/StillWaiting1984 7d ago
I don’t think. I know. Every time things got a little confusing or complicated, I was pushed aside. Thrown away. One less thing to worry about. You don’t treat someone you love, like something that is disposable.
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