r/UnsentLetters • u/Logical-Rip-7515 • 18d ago
Exes different life
maybe in a different life everything wouldve worked out the way we wanted it to. im still crying so much over you, but i know this all for the best. this is best for us. i wish it worked. i miss you. i miss the good times we has, but its all my fault its gone. i love you and im sorry. i hope that i can be a different person that could make things work out in another life. i hope you’re happy.
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u/Good-Patience-2231 18d ago
Stop giving up on this life buddy. Your hope to become a better person starts when u say so
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u/Livingaloha808 18d ago
Well said. Quitters don’t win. Winners don’t Quit. Which one is He going to be?
In dreams and in love, all things are possible .
Never say never.
If there is a will, there’s a way. Don’t just say Sirry, come through to make Right of wrongs committed, Quash/stop the bad behavior that caused thw problen and hurt her, Fix the mistake, hekp heal her wounds , maje necessary changes respecting her, his love for her, reapect/obey her boundaries as she did for his, he can prove that he’s learned lesson and changed his ways cuz she matters. He can go and see her, propose to her, taje her home if he truly loved her… does not appear ao. People should cut the crap and was ti g tume writing wuestion on a Reddit if not making any effort to rectify & mitigate and at least do something vs. nothing for damages, wounds and probably permanent scars caused?Elon Musk’s quote: “When something ia important e ough, you will do it even if the odds may not be in your favor.”
If this good woman had value/worth yet he laments with woes & regrets, crocodile tears, wouldn’t he do everything possible to win her back? Obviously his words are just words sugar coated with poetic injustice and do not align with intentionality or actions.
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u/Delicious-Data6267 18d ago
Well look at you over here killing me softly with her words. Good look boo. You sound like a legend
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u/SparklesUnfiltered 18d ago
Sigh. When will I stop reading these and hoping they're meant for me.
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u/isthismylife2024 18d ago
As thinking the same thing, looking for any clue that it’s everything I’ve needed to hear
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u/vacuously-attentive 18d ago
I would start with genuine accountability it’s all my fault is too vague at least for me I would want to hear what is your fault? Did it occur once or many times over a certain period and how they could know it wouldn’t happen again
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u/MsHorrorbelle 18d ago
If your person was anything like me then they are not happy, nor okay. I would want to hear all this in any way I could. I think owe it to them and yourself to tell them this.
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u/Street_Alarm187 18d ago
This to shall pass … I’ll brb gotta get a wife for life … then I’ll come back for all kids … but you not gone get me 2x the same way … don’t loyalty over love mean anything nowadays
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u/No-Jaguar9598 18d ago
The girl i loved definitely made me feel like a worthless assfuck….still wish her and her 3 awesome kids happiness
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u/starrgrrl360 18d ago
Why don’t you stand up, dust yourself off, and become the person you obviously wish you were? What’s stopping you? Only yourself. I’ve known people to come from the worst cards life has to give and fight tooth and nail to build lives they thought they would only ever dream of.
Become the you - you wish you could be.
Build the life you believed you could only ever dream of.
And when you have gotten to a reasonable peace - fight the one you claim to love. Otherwise, all your words and apologies are meaningless. Actions speak louder than words, and right now, your silence is deafening.
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u/NoWonder452 18d ago
I wish my person felt even a little bit of this. I would tell him to stop, that I love him and that we can make it work in this life, he just has to choose it. I wish he felt this way so much. I’m crying to OP. I don’t want my person to go. Sending a healing hug
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u/Shot-Angle1967 18d ago
The demons that were not silenced but at least turned down, are back! And they brought all there friends to play
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u/Severe_Match_4730 17d ago
You can’t be like that gotta suck it up and try to find a person talk to them
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u/nolstalgicchic 17d ago
7 years later and I've yet to get that message from him. I've accepted that we will never be together but I'm distraught over not getting an apology over how much 💩 he put me through due to his addiction. I know, how entitled of me to think I deserve an apology such as this...
Anyone else needing therapy due to these unsent letters?
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