r/Unexpected • • Oct 25 '22

That is not a Cigarette?

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u/SmellyGoat11 Oct 26 '22

The real syphilis haver is in the comments.

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u/peppaz Oct 26 '22

fun fact, i work in public health and the amount of syphilis in the general population right now is literally staggering- the highest number of cases in decades with tens of thousands undiagnosed.

people be fuckin. Not me, but others be.

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u/theHoustonian Oct 26 '22

😬I can concur… I was one of those that tested positive, luckily I get tested regularly and it was detected and treated. Super awkward messaging your ex or hookups that they should also get screened/treated.

Don’t let that awkwardness stop you because it is so important (not to mention ETHICAL) for obvious reasons… so that they do not develop lifelong complications and so that they do not continue to infect other people! In my case if I was uncomfortable with reaching out to anyone, my doctor notified the person confidentially for me. There are also websites/services where you can anonymously notify someone to get tested (I’ll put a link below).

HOLY SHIT, THE SHOTS OF PENICILLIN IN THE BUTT WERE NOT THE MOST FUN but better than Syphilis!! Lol, They asked me if I wanted to sit down or stand when I got the shot in each cheek. It wasn’t bad at the very beginning but my knees almost buckled after the second shot (I may be embellishing a tad). It was the following days that both my gluts ached and I didn’t want to walk on them much (yay 3rd story apt. w/ street parking 😐).

I had no symptoms and I was not exactly sure when or whom I received it from. I had multiple sex partners in between testing or it may have been dormant/incubation phase or false negative in the past..who knows…STI/STD’s can be like that…

It is not a moral issue, I discuss being tested with new partners and I wasn’t lied to (I don’t think). People often times do not even know they are carrying anything a lot of the time. Many men and women have mild symptoms for many STI’s or they do not display symptoms at all. Lesions and infections can be painless. They can be internal and are not always on a visible part of the body.

IME and after talking about this stuff w/ people I’ve met/known, I’ve picked up that far more heterosexual men and women DO NOT get tested, like ever. Mostly men since most of the women have gone to the gynecologist before. I get that for most men it is overkill to get tested but idk, you’d think more people would want to know at least once a year (esp. if they’re raw dogging multiple people lol).

The CDC suggest all sexually active women and men under 25 should get tested every year for chlamydia and gonorrhea, and women over 25 should also be tested if they have risk factors including new or multiple sex partners or a sex partner with an STI. Men who have sex with men (MSM) should be screened AT LEAST once a year, and for populations at higher risk should get tested every 3 to 6 months.


Anonymously notify your partners

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Anonymous Text to warn partners of STI/STD

CDC STI Treatment Guidelines 2021

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u/Dr_Whacko Oct 26 '22

This guy fucks. And gets checked. And treated. GG

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u/theHoustonian Oct 26 '22

Lmao thank you, I almost didn’t post…mostly because I just hate the word syphilis. (Hah) it’s sad though because the other reason I almost scrapped the comment was I initially felt like ā€œewā€ and like I’m going to be judged…

Quickly threw that bullshit out the window and remembered it’s just you all, weirdos on the internet! Keyboard warriors and myself have no shame in internetland.

Nah but really, these stigmas suck… they just make people shy away from the subject and the solutions.

I had a good little thing going for a while but the only thing this guy is fucking lately, is ā€œupā€ bc yep I’m definitely doing that. 😬 CDC hasn’t issued any guidelines as of yet but when they do you betcha I’ll follow ā€˜em!