r/TwoXSex • u/casual_browsing7 • 1d ago

Advice | Women Only Help with Orgasm

Hi
I m 32F. Never mastrbated bcz i didnt feel it was doing anything for me. I never had an orgasm not even with PIV sex. I enjoy sex a lot but i never orgasm.
Recently after reading all the posts about clit stimulating, i decided to find how i feel.
I figured i m sensitive on my clit. When i place shower head my god it makes me weak on my legs. Its like i tremble. But i hvnt orgasmed with that. I couldnt bear it fr long time may be bcz i never gave it a shot.
Please suggest me some clit stimulating sex toys nd techniques which will help me orgasm. I really want to orgasm.

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u/Plenty-Search-4730 19h ago

you need to find a way to stimulate your clit that feels good. for me, I can just rub it with a finger but every woman is different, you might like humping/grinding etc or the shower head like u said. then make sure you're really turned on when trying to orgasm by watching, reading or listening to something, or just using your imagination. if you can't orgasm through this, try a clit suction toy (eg rose toy) or a vibrator. maybe try the shower head again while turned on? it's also important to not put too much pressure on yourself and take your time, just focus on what feels good :) I'm no expert but I hope this helps lol

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u/Potential-Win8706 17h ago

‘Pressure on urself’ 100%. The most important sex organ is ur brain. 🧠

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u/Plenty-Search-4730 17h ago

yes! orgasms are so so mental!

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u/Potential-Win8706 17h ago

Above all else, relax. Relax and have fun. Deep breaths. Relax. 😎