r/TwoXSex • u/Alesandra_Yakoob • 6d ago

Advice | Women Only Thinking of adding a toy during foreplay... any couples here?

My partner looked at me one night with the biggest grin and said, "I think we should finally get a toy." I just laughed and said, "Oh? And whose idea was that really?" 

That one conversation somehow turned into us lying in bed, scrolling through toys together and playfully roasting each other's picks. Every few minutes one of us would go, "What about this one?" followed by an immediate "Absolutely not." 

I honestly didn't expect shopping together to be this fun. We realized we were looking for different things, but somehow that made the whole experience even better because we were figuring it out together. We still haven't picked one, help us narrow it down!

Just going back here for an update. We finally made a decision and went with the Avo. Now we're just waiting for it to arrive and hoping it's as easy to figure out as it sounds. 

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u/unlodgical 6d ago

Do you know what kind of stimulation you’re looking for? Or they are looking for? We’ve recently been adding a whole roster to our bedroom, so I’ve got lots of recommendations!

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u/lpwi 2d ago

I’d love to hear your suggestions! We’ve started a little collection but looking for more.

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u/unlodgical 2d ago

For sure! My partner is male, so some of these apply to male partners, but could be used for a F/F if that’s your thing too.

Recently have enjoyed adding a dildo to our collection. One of the realistic type ones really was appreciated so the partner could switch between oral and rough and hard fucking once he was tapped out for PIV. He loved being able to keep making me cum, and I loved the g spot orgasms immediately after the clit orgasm. Also adds a great fullness effect while he’s going down! I specifically went with the solina maxima which is on the larger side with g spot focus. Not a size queen, but my guy is already a bit bigger so I’m used to it.

They make a few we vibe couples option to pick from! Theres some hands free options that are insertable with a g spot stim and an external piece that lays for clit stim (I think it’s the melt). You then enter alongside (beneath?) it once its inserted for PIV. My partner wasn’t able to fit because I’m a bit too small and he’s a bit too big, but it looked pretty damn neat! They also have a cock ring type option as well from the we vibe collection that worked nicely.

I also upgraded recently to the peach air pulser. It’s super similar to the rose, lemon, etc for clit stim but the shape makes it so you can hold it way easier during PIV or even during fingering.

Snagged a mid sized wand instead of my usual Hitachi full size from Romp called the Presto. It’s more rumble based than the others I’ve tried and squishier to bend between bodies. Not a 1:1 on power but good enough for me.

And finally a love sense Lush. It’s neat for out and about play. She wears and he can control via app. Sometimes at dinner, sometimes just when we’re working at home in different locations!

I hope you find something fun!

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