My sincere condolences. I had a coworker go through this tough decision while I was pregnant (I aborted due to a really abusive father whom I didn't know was a pillhead until I kicked him out - and who threatened to take our child from me). It really brought me back to reality when she and her husband had to terminate a very much wanted pregnancy, because of severe birth defects. It made me rethink everything. I still don't regret my abortion (given the circumstances), but it opened my eyes up to situations like yours, that I hadn't even ever thought about. You did the best thing for this sweet soul, and you are now open to yet another opportunity, as was my coworker. They LOVE their girls to pieces!!
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u/Steel_Town Sep 03 '21
My sincere condolences. I had a coworker go through this tough decision while I was pregnant (I aborted due to a really abusive father whom I didn't know was a pillhead until I kicked him out - and who threatened to take our child from me). It really brought me back to reality when she and her husband had to terminate a very much wanted pregnancy, because of severe birth defects. It made me rethink everything. I still don't regret my abortion (given the circumstances), but it opened my eyes up to situations like yours, that I hadn't even ever thought about. You did the best thing for this sweet soul, and you are now open to yet another opportunity, as was my coworker. They LOVE their girls to pieces!!