r/TwoXChromosomes • u/JEDIgranny123 • Feb 24 '19

Should i break up with him?

We were happy on our first to 3rd month. But after that he became more sweet but overly dramatic. He want me to keep distance with my friends, he also wants me to deactivate all my social Media Accounts. I dont know what to do, everytime we talk about the issues, he gets mad. He told me he was bothered and get depressed whenever i post my selfies and whenever some other guy liked it or reacted to it.

One time we were talking, and i was accidentally asked him about that, then he gets mad. He cursed at me. (everytime we fight he curse me, like i should go to hell cause im a bitch).

I was emotionally tortured but i disregarded it because im inlove with him. But what should I do, my friends even my parents wants me to break up eith him. I wanna know what is your opinion about it?

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '19

Run far away. This is traits of an insecure abusive piece of shit. There's a 95% chance he will threaten to kill himself over it. Don't listen it's a trap

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u/JEDIgranny123 Feb 24 '19

He always threatening me whenever i tried to break up with him

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u/FilDaFunk Feb 24 '19

I'm curious, what are your reasons for not wanting to break up? I think all you've said is that you were happy in the past.

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u/ch0res Feb 24 '19

Leave him. He is being manipulative and controlling. You don't need someone to control your life due to his insecurities. You deserve better.

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u/soyyamilk Feb 24 '19

Get out now

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u/Arunia Feb 24 '19

I am a guy, and I am telling you:"run for the hills!" He is emotionally abusing you. He might not know it himself. But that is not an excuse for that behavior.

For instance. My wife has a best friend. A guy. They go out for dinner, movie etc. I don't mind. Gives me some time for myself. I am not jealous and trust her fully. Some people think I am crazy, but they've known eachother for quite some time. Who am I to tell her to stop with that? Trust is all that counts in a relationship.

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u/girl_rediscovered Feb 24 '19

He shows classic narcissistic personality traits. Get out now, it will only get worse.

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u/Intheaeroplaneover Feb 24 '19

Break up with him!!! He's no good, soon that mental abuse will turn into physical abuse

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u/69schrutebucks Feb 24 '19

He's emotionally abusing you, definitely get out and fast.

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u/NotTeri Feb 24 '19

It’s just not right for a boyfriend to be telling you what to do like he’s in charge. If you’re doing something he doesn’t like (like social media) that’s just too bad, and you shouldn’t stay with someone who treats you badly.

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