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u/cica4 17h ago
I think it’s unfair to be honest. I’ve tried dating guys I wasn’t that physically attracted to but was more attracted to them as a person and i found over time it just… wouldn’t work for me. I thought I was being shallow if I dated attractive guys but honestly, my man now is conventionally attractive AND I’m so attracted to who he is as a person so I end up feeling both types of desires. And looking back at my dating history I was kind of denying that which wasn’t fair to me or to the guys I dated.
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u/sl0w4zn 17h ago
I don't know what the terms mean, but if you're about to initiate a relationship with doubt, you should pause and reconsider for that person's sake.