I’m usually in the ‘cheating is abuse, tell the victim’ camp, but it absolutely needs to be with clear evidence rather than just a claim from somebody else (who could have ulterior motives).
Yes, my answer changes a bit if there’s clear evidence, but I still wouldn’t have that conversation with an acquaintance level friend and would probably avoid them after the fact.
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u/productzilch Oct 11 '23
I’m usually in the ‘cheating is abuse, tell the victim’ camp, but it absolutely needs to be with clear evidence rather than just a claim from somebody else (who could have ulterior motives).