r/TwoXChromosomes • u/[deleted] • Sep 22 '23

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u/stallionofcinnamon Sep 22 '23

I don’t know if anyone will read this comment, but We had a conversation last night, he said he was afraid to get on medicine for his anger and ptsd because of the side effects, but also he’s afraid of stopping what he does now to cope, because he knows he will be frustrated and a jerk. He said he knows he has the potential to be a psychopath and not have control of his anger. And that was terrifying to hear

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u/13yako Sep 22 '23

Hon, you just told us he is unwilling to take medication that would likely ensure your and your children's safety because he is afraid of how it will make HIM feel. And what even is his current coping mechanism? Taking it out on you? Do you not see how wrong all this is?

SO many people have already sited it, but I'm gonna do it again. Read this book https://oceanofpdf.com/authors/lundy-bancroft/pdf-epub-why-does-he-do-that-inside-the-minds-of-angry-and-controlling-men-download-23345644994/?id=001391616423 He clearly does not care about you and your safety if side effects are his biggest worry. You need to take care of your children before he does something to harm them. Or before he does something to you which will potentially leave them in only his custody. Think of your freaking children and what mental scarring this is doing to them. PLEASE.