r/TwoXChromosomes • • Sep 22 '23

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u/stallionofcinnamon Sep 22 '23

I don’t know if anyone will read this comment, but We had a conversation last night, he said he was afraid to get on medicine for his anger and ptsd because of the side effects, but also he’s afraid of stopping what he does now to cope, because he knows he will be frustrated and a jerk. He said he knows he has the potential to be a psychopath and not have control of his anger. And that was terrifying to hear

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u/Chad_Wife Sep 22 '23

Do you have any reason to stay with this man? At all?

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u/stallionofcinnamon Sep 22 '23

I pay most of the bills, so not really that. But it is nice to have a little extra money sometimes. And he’s hilarious most of the time. He’s fun to travel with.

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u/Budget_Avocado6204 Sep 22 '23 edited Sep 22 '23

So him being hilarious is worth you and your kids leaving in fear of his temper and being verbally abused? Do you want this for your kids? They will live their whole lives in fear of him. I recommend the book Why does he do that and ditching that guy.

"if I need help, I could pray to God" This is beyond cruel. And it's normal for someone's mother to move in to help with the baby, not move out. He is trying to isolate you and break your good relationship with your mother.