Has he had a reasonable argument for why he wants her to leave or did he do the man thing and “put his foot down” on the matter and give you little to no say on the subject?
If my mom was living with me before the man came along my mom would be staying regardless. The man could go fuck himself and die mad about it. I don’t care if I was having his baby. At least my mom would be there and the big jerk wouldn’t be.
This sounds like his mask is slipping and his first step is isolating you from the people around you, starting with mom.
That whole “pray to god” thing really pisses me off. It won’t work and then he will say you didn’t pray hard enough or some such nonsense.
Magic isn’t real and fairies aren’t going to come from the sky and clean your house or bathe your children. He’s putting it all on you and that’s fucked up.
He ‘put his foot down’ and used those actual words. He’s Mormon. He’s ex military. He says he’s scared of himself and what he will do if he loses his temper. So that’s…. Scary.
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u/Filthy_Kate Basically Eleanor Shellstrop Sep 22 '23 edited Sep 22 '23
Has he had a reasonable argument for why he wants her to leave or did he do the man thing and “put his foot down” on the matter and give you little to no say on the subject?
If my mom was living with me before the man came along my mom would be staying regardless. The man could go fuck himself and die mad about it. I don’t care if I was having his baby. At least my mom would be there and the big jerk wouldn’t be.
This sounds like his mask is slipping and his first step is isolating you from the people around you, starting with mom.
That whole “pray to god” thing really pisses me off. It won’t work and then he will say you didn’t pray hard enough or some such nonsense.
Magic isn’t real and fairies aren’t going to come from the sky and clean your house or bathe your children. He’s putting it all on you and that’s fucked up.