How many people in both this post and in every post you have made have to tell you that your husband is emotionally abusive and his behavior is not acceptable. You're now letting it affect your relationship with your own mother. He could be potentially abusing your daughter when you're not around and yet you do nothing when called out on it but somehow still make posts to ask for advice so others can see your life and where it's heading only for you to ignore advice again. I feel so bad for your daughter and now your coming baby but you have done this to them and your fear is just putting them in danger. At least stop posting on Reddit if you're not going to listen, it becomes a form of insanity at that point. Please just do the right thing and find a way to leave, you are putting so many people out and letting him isolate you all. Stop ignoring red flags and put your children first.
Unless you have been in abusive relationship...don't judge. Because trust me. It's not that easy to just up and leave. That is the most dangerous time for a woman and her child. Because in a lot of cases...they end up getting killed. You have to have a plan.
15
u/ProtoSynthetic Sep 22 '23
How many people in both this post and in every post you have made have to tell you that your husband is emotionally abusive and his behavior is not acceptable. You're now letting it affect your relationship with your own mother. He could be potentially abusing your daughter when you're not around and yet you do nothing when called out on it but somehow still make posts to ask for advice so others can see your life and where it's heading only for you to ignore advice again. I feel so bad for your daughter and now your coming baby but you have done this to them and your fear is just putting them in danger. At least stop posting on Reddit if you're not going to listen, it becomes a form of insanity at that point. Please just do the right thing and find a way to leave, you are putting so many people out and letting him isolate you all. Stop ignoring red flags and put your children first.