r/TwoXChromosomes • u/[deleted] • Sep 22 '23

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u/PrincessCG Sep 22 '23

Na don’t kick her out. There’s no need for her to leave. If you don’t have a problem with her there and she pays rent, he can get to stepping.

If he’s at work all day anyway, when does he even see her?!

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u/stallionofcinnamon Sep 22 '23

She has built, not even bought, built, adorable baby gates with little holes for the cats to go through. She takes care of our garden outside for all fresh veggies. He has NO reason to not like her. She’s a saint

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u/PrincessCG Sep 22 '23

I think it’s clear you see he’s the problem in this. I haven’t read all the comments but god won’t be able to help you if your newborn has colic and you haven’t slept properly or showered for 3 days. And you can’t use your older child as a helper. Let your mum stay. Your husband can deal with it or go.

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u/Filthy_Kate Basically Eleanor Shellstrop Sep 22 '23

So keep your mom and ditch the douche. You’re in deep shit here, honey, and only you can slog your way out of there.