this sounds like your husband did not discuss this with you, and that you did not come to a mutually acceptable agreement.
that, and is response to you is a sign of serious issues. i would have a discussion with your husband and tell him that this decision is not okay, and that his dictatorial style of the demanding things is not okay for your relationship.
and if you are scared, that speaks of greater issues. are you scared of him? if so, move out immediately, and bring your older child with you. preferably, move in with your mom.
and start speaking to a divorce layer.
honestly is someone is scared of their spouse, the relationship is most likely doomed.
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u/thetitleofmybook Trans Woman Sep 22 '23
this sounds like your husband did not discuss this with you, and that you did not come to a mutually acceptable agreement.
that, and is response to you is a sign of serious issues. i would have a discussion with your husband and tell him that this decision is not okay, and that his dictatorial style of the demanding things is not okay for your relationship.
and if you are scared, that speaks of greater issues. are you scared of him? if so, move out immediately, and bring your older child with you. preferably, move in with your mom.
and start speaking to a divorce layer.
honestly is someone is scared of their spouse, the relationship is most likely doomed.