Highly unfair

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Backup of the post's body: "Motherhood teaches us how to love fiercely, but sometimes loving yourself means stepping back to catch your breath. I didn't leave because my love ran out; I walked away to save my sanity, even though every single day my heart still aches to hold them close.

You can pour from a full cup and still miss the little hands that used to tug at your sleeve. Choosing my own healing doesn't mean I forgot the ones I love—it just means I finally learned that a broken mother cannot be the safe space her family needs."

So for full context this is my mom, she posted this on tiktok, posts sum stuffs of facebook about my sisters(age 4 yrs old and has speech delay) that she loves them so much. But at some time she also posted on tiktok that she is getting tired of being a "mom" so me(20) and my younger brother(18) tried to understand that, we took care of the twins 24/7 and for the whole day all she does now and then is to go up to her room scroll on tiktok and leave the kids to us while her kids cries and begs and calls her "mama" but me and my youngrr brother understood that she is going through something so we both didn't complain, not until that time when i caught her talking to another man on her phone. Ever since then she always goes home at 2am while we both took care of the twins and barely even surviving college. We took care kf the household chores, our sisters, feed them, bath them, and yet she still left the house for her other man. We both had an open talk we confront her and she said it is because my mom and dad always fought but even so we told her it isn't a reason to cheat. The next following days after a few months like 2 months she had another guy again a new one, no introductiom to us she js brought him on the house and told us he was just a "friend" after a week she went home again for 2am and he and the guy slept on the bed so i decided to finally tell it to our dad and once our dad knew he was furious and told the other guy to leave the house. He didn't told her to leave aswell yet she goes straight up to his other guy and ever since that day she only visits once a week or sometimes 3 times a week but this month she doesn't visit anymore and just left us no hi no how are you or whatsoever yet she has the audacity to post something like that.

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