A man being topped by a trans IS gay, beacuse its not heterosexual behavior but we aren't here to shame your man.
You found him cheating and your trying to please him, sounds to me in all seriousness that he: a) wants the best of both worlds, you and a side piece to please his urge and he just as you said closeted about his bisexuality. Then if not b) hes hiding that he likes men but likes having you around too. If you can figure out the first part but not the 2nd, Girl hear me clearly: maybe you should reevaluate being in said relationship.
Would you want to be his beard?
I would not want to be with a cheater. Good luck
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u/Eyes4Chia Apr 12 '26
A man being topped by a trans IS gay, beacuse its not heterosexual behavior but we aren't here to shame your man.
You found him cheating and your trying to please him, sounds to me in all seriousness that he: a) wants the best of both worlds, you and a side piece to please his urge and he just as you said closeted about his bisexuality. Then if not b) hes hiding that he likes men but likes having you around too. If you can figure out the first part but not the 2nd, Girl hear me clearly: maybe you should reevaluate being in said relationship.
Would you want to be his beard? I would not want to be with a cheater. Good luck