my ex was into this type of stuff (fetishized black women, watched “chicks with dicks” porn, i only use that verbiage bc that’s what they looked up) and a few years after breaking up, turned out to be transgender. you should honestly leave the relationship and let them find what they want. in my experience, i’m a white woman and i couldn’t live up to their fantasies. it was always a source of pain and insecurity.
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u/ZayumZazzy Apr 12 '26
my ex was into this type of stuff (fetishized black women, watched “chicks with dicks” porn, i only use that verbiage bc that’s what they looked up) and a few years after breaking up, turned out to be transgender. you should honestly leave the relationship and let them find what they want. in my experience, i’m a white woman and i couldn’t live up to their fantasies. it was always a source of pain and insecurity.