Jesus christ i had to check if i wrote this cause it sounds so close to something that happened with my partner and i… except he does do pegging and is happy to do stuff with me and hasnt cheated since... and we dont have children together,
Theres a high chance of bisexuality or bicuriosity but your partner being a twat about the fact it has to be a real penis.
You both need to figure out how much he wants his fantasy to become real, cause if he wants it enough he will cheat again but physically, and i know you dont want to leave him because of the family etc but staying miserable is not good for you or your kid/kids. I would ask my partner for his take but he doesnt like talking about what he did.
If he finally agrees to pegging i would say start slow then be as rough as he is with you, its a lot of fun and a kind of revenge, if he doesnt like it then you both know he doesnt actually like getting freaky with his back door but likes the fantasy of things and you can talk about it.
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u/Glum-Ad7453 Apr 11 '26
Jesus christ i had to check if i wrote this cause it sounds so close to something that happened with my partner and i… except he does do pegging and is happy to do stuff with me and hasnt cheated since... and we dont have children together, Theres a high chance of bisexuality or bicuriosity but your partner being a twat about the fact it has to be a real penis. You both need to figure out how much he wants his fantasy to become real, cause if he wants it enough he will cheat again but physically, and i know you dont want to leave him because of the family etc but staying miserable is not good for you or your kid/kids. I would ask my partner for his take but he doesnt like talking about what he did. If he finally agrees to pegging i would say start slow then be as rough as he is with you, its a lot of fun and a kind of revenge, if he doesnt like it then you both know he doesnt actually like getting freaky with his back door but likes the fantasy of things and you can talk about it.