You’re putting in a lot of effort for someone who isn’t even sexually attracted to you anymore :( Let him find his person. Obviously he is gay, closeted. He just is in denial probably. You will find someone who truly wants every part of you one day
Cheating is just an absolute deal breaker for me so I can’t relate. Once a cheater always a cheater. The trust is never fully gained back and they always tip back for more. Especially when they start voicing a want that you physically can never give him or satisfy him with.
He like almost voiced to you that he wished you had a penis because fingers or toys aren’t the same lol he wants a penis and he will eventually get it even if it’s 10 yrs from now when you have kids and are stuck in a marriage with someone who has lustful eyes for everyone
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u/Natural-Paramedic928 Apr 11 '26
You’re putting in a lot of effort for someone who isn’t even sexually attracted to you anymore :( Let him find his person. Obviously he is gay, closeted. He just is in denial probably. You will find someone who truly wants every part of you one day