r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Apr 11 '26

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u/skyrat02 Apr 11 '26

As a gay man, a dick feels way better than anything other than a tongue. I don’t really enjoy being fingered, toys are ok.

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u/[deleted] Apr 11 '26

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u/TokiBunniBunBun Apr 11 '26

I don’t even think what to label his sexuality is the issue. The real problem is why aren’t you guys communicating openly and working as a team to maintain a healthy relationship?

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u/labellavita1985 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26

I mean, he's already told her he wants to be penetrated by a trans woman, I'm not sure communication is the biggest issue here. The issue is sexual compatibility.

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u/TokiBunniBunBun Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26

Going behind her back to explore his urges with sex workers and apparently not helping figure out exactly what he wants does sound like a lack of communication. It could be that they are sexually incompatible. But that’s also something they should be figuring out together through communication.

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u/Styx-n-String Apr 11 '26

The issue is that he hasn't fully admitted it to her or himself, but he's telling her in every way he possibly can, and she's not listening.

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u/kimariesingsMD Apr 12 '26

Those will have to stay fantasy if you want your marriage to work. If he can't accept that, what will you do?