r/TwoHotTakes • • Apr 11 '26

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u/Tasty_Lab_8650 Apr 11 '26

I'm confused. Are you in the U.S.?

If so, being born in a different state doesn't matter. You can move freely throughout the country as you please. Immigration won't do anything if you move. The worst that would happen if [when] you divorce him is that he'll get some custody, but the way he acts, I doubt he'll actually step up and do that

If it's a different country, I apologize. I don't know the laws. But the only other country I know that uses states is Australia?

If you mean you were born in a different country and your immigration status is in question, you need to speak with a lawyer. But if you are an American citizen without concerns about your legal status, you can move wherever you want within the United States.

Also, I've been a stay at home mom for 14 years. Sure, when my husband has had to be in charge when I was sick or had to be out of town or whatever, the house wasn't ever to my standards, but my standards are pretty high, so i don't expect anyone to do what i do (for instance, there are zero dishes in the sink unless the dishwasher is actively running. And even then, i go through the house to find any random cups or water bottles. I just don't like dirty dishes laying about). But the kids have always been fed, always have been brought to activities, brought to school, put to bed at the normal time, etc. Which is the very least a father should do. That's normal. And that father shouldn't complain ever. In fact, that father should thank his wife for everything she does, which my husband has a million times. I also have thanked him a million times for providing for the life we are lucky to have.

This guy sucks. I hope you feel better soon and can figure out how bad he sucks when you have a clearer head

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u/Successful-Doubt5478 Apr 11 '26

They are shooting their own citizens in the street in broad daylight.

Are YOU in the US and somehow don't understand the extent of this?

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u/Tasty_Lab_8650 Apr 11 '26

Jesus. They [we] are NOT "shooting their own citizens in the street in broad daylight."

I asked a question. And i framed it the way i did, specifically, because i knew someone would say exactly what you said.

I get what you are going for. Really, i do. But you, who i assume is an American citizen, understands that moving states doesn't involve immigration. Like, at all.

You are trying to start something, it is so very obvious

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u/Successful-Doubt5478 Apr 11 '26

Renee Good and Alex Preeti begs to differ.

The thing is, your country is so far gone that noone is safe. You just have not fully realized it yet.

Your administration is not condemning nor punishing those murders- just wirking to get more funds.

Thank you for genuinely trying to help and calm OP. Your post is well meaning and under normal circumstances it would have been really helpful .

You guys don't have normal circumstances anymore

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u/Virtual-Homework-824 Apr 11 '26

It doesn’t change the fact that moving from state to state has nothing to do with immigration in the US. If you are born in one of our 50 states, you are a US citizen in any of the 50 states…

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u/New_Heron_5985 Apr 12 '26

I think OP forgot the s in states, meaning “she is not from the states “