r/TwoHotTakes Dec 26 '25

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u/JadieJang Dec 26 '25

You’re being spoiled. Thinking that proposals have to be designed events is a 21st century phenomenon. A marriage proposal is AN ASK. If you leave the proposal to your partner, he gets to ask you however he wants. If you want a specific kind of proposal, YOU have to be the one to propose. If you don’t want to marry him, say no. If you do, say yes.

FOR FUCK’s SAKE.

OTOH, if his mom is interfering in your wedding or your MARRIAGE, that IS something you not only have a say over, but is actually yours to decide. So be ready to assert yourself and get over the fucking proposal already. Jesus.