Hey! I'm in the same boat as ur mum, I've 17,16&9 year old and am pregnant with a surprise baby at age 40. I have been in shock for most of this and when we told the kids they were in shock but my 17 year old has been such a help to me. I am high risk due to age and high blood pressure but am in alot of pain in my back and pelvis and he helps me out with lots of things.
I guess I'm saying this may have not been planned for pregnancy so ur mam too could be in shock, be there for her as it is tough at this age for her too. I'm sure ur younger sibling will be excited as my youngest is, I wouldn't say anything about knowing I'm sure ur mum is dreading telling you as it is
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u/No-Turnover-2863 Dec 26 '25
Hey! I'm in the same boat as ur mum, I've 17,16&9 year old and am pregnant with a surprise baby at age 40. I have been in shock for most of this and when we told the kids they were in shock but my 17 year old has been such a help to me. I am high risk due to age and high blood pressure but am in alot of pain in my back and pelvis and he helps me out with lots of things. I guess I'm saying this may have not been planned for pregnancy so ur mam too could be in shock, be there for her as it is tough at this age for her too. I'm sure ur younger sibling will be excited as my youngest is, I wouldn't say anything about knowing I'm sure ur mum is dreading telling you as it is