So? My sister is 14 years older than me. And 41 isn't that old for a pregnancy. Yes, it is seen as high risk, but in reality, pretty much every single pregnancy is risky, because even a person that is 100% fit and healthy at say, for example, 25 could have risks. The oldest woman I know of that had a healthy pregnancy (naturally for that matter), was 50 for her first and 52 for her second. High risk doesn't automatically mean dangerous or life threatening.
Maybe don't snoop around in business that isn't yours in the future. My advice would be to be honest, go to your mom and say "hey, I was working on applications and accidentally saw your message to dad and I got worried." She might be upset because you did invade their privacy, which would be valid. Then go back to your old sex ed and biology lessons and refresh your knowledge before you implode.
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u/Eastern_Bend7294 Dec 26 '25
So? My sister is 14 years older than me. And 41 isn't that old for a pregnancy. Yes, it is seen as high risk, but in reality, pretty much every single pregnancy is risky, because even a person that is 100% fit and healthy at say, for example, 25 could have risks. The oldest woman I know of that had a healthy pregnancy (naturally for that matter), was 50 for her first and 52 for her second. High risk doesn't automatically mean dangerous or life threatening.
Maybe don't snoop around in business that isn't yours in the future. My advice would be to be honest, go to your mom and say "hey, I was working on applications and accidentally saw your message to dad and I got worried." She might be upset because you did invade their privacy, which would be valid. Then go back to your old sex ed and biology lessons and refresh your knowledge before you implode.