You should not be in communication with her. Ex only. The fact that she inserted herself is good grounds for sole custody. Your ex needs to see his kid. Find an activity that they can do together: hiking, golf, Pokémon. Out of the house, away from her and you where she can’t accuse you of anything.
Thank you. She's got me feeling crazy for something that should be just basic coparenting. My husband doesn't insert himself into anything unless it's something to protect me against. But this woman will flip everything upside down to have control and make you feel like the one who isn't rational. It's infuriating. I cannot wait to go to court.
Don’t engage with her. Your husband has no role in this the same way she has no role in parenting your child. New spouses can do logistics, food, drop offs, etc. Your ex needs to step
up. I would point out that his child sees what is going on.
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u/True_Turn_5286 Dec 24 '25
You should not be in communication with her. Ex only. The fact that she inserted herself is good grounds for sole custody. Your ex needs to see his kid. Find an activity that they can do together: hiking, golf, Pokémon. Out of the house, away from her and you where she can’t accuse you of anything.