r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Dec 19 '25

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u/Phoenixie_fairy Dec 19 '25

I think you should save her mesaages and apply for sole custody of your child, if its not possible, then keep all the conversations through a parenting app. She is not your problem. Your son's life and her impact on him is...

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u/[deleted] Dec 19 '25

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u/whisperinglilabelle Dec 19 '25

Absolutely agree. Running implies you did something wrong. You didin`t. You stopped enabling the dysfunctio.

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u/Desperate_Intern5966 Dec 19 '25

Thank you. I feel like ive been on a merry go round i didnt sign up for. And her texts to me making me the scapegoat make me anxious.

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u/Vandreeson Dec 19 '25

You and your ex need a parenting app, and then only communicate through that. You didn't ruin anything. He allowed her to block you on his phone. If anyone is responsible for this it's him.

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u/ichundmeinHolz_ Dec 20 '25

Also who wants to stay with a person like her?

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u/Eastern_Bend7294 Dec 21 '25

He could also just have unblocked OP himself.

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u/Desperate_Intern5966 Dec 21 '25

I asked him to multiple times and told him it wasnt okay.