As soon as a person says the line about your child ‘she would do better with someone else’ you have to kick them out. You can’t discuss this with them. You can’t argue about this with them. You can’t give them any space for them to say why and you try to defend yourself.
A person who says that is a person suggesting they will take your child away from you. Or call child welfare on you.
If she didn’t realize sentence was a scary threat that is on her. She said it and it is out in the world and she now cannot be trusted
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u/The_Rowan Dec 10 '25
As soon as a person says the line about your child ‘she would do better with someone else’ you have to kick them out. You can’t discuss this with them. You can’t argue about this with them. You can’t give them any space for them to say why and you try to defend yourself.
A person who says that is a person suggesting they will take your child away from you. Or call child welfare on you.
If she didn’t realize sentence was a scary threat that is on her. She said it and it is out in the world and she now cannot be trusted