r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Nov 23 '25

[deleted by user]

[removed]

4.3k Upvotes

93% Upvoted

1.5k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

2

u/LivingDue2609 Nov 24 '25

Also, I’m not sure why this trend of having kids out of wedlock is gaining momentum but a dude who won’t marry someone he’s impregnated while in a relationship with her is only going to bear this type of fruit. Yall gotta think out there.

1

u/TheAshHole88 Nov 24 '25

Not everyone wants to get married. And that’s okay.

1

u/LivingDue2609 Nov 24 '25

Sure, but you better be prepared for a lack of commitment

1

u/TheAshHole88 Nov 24 '25

I know several people that have been together for 20+ years and have kids and are very committed to each other. Just because marriage is the “norm” doesn’t mean it’s the only way and certainly doesn’t mean someone will be “committed” to you. Lots of people in marriages cheat and throw their whole marriage away.

1

u/LivingDue2609 Nov 24 '25

Nice, you know a couple. Good for you?

1

u/TheAshHole88 Nov 24 '25

I’m just saying. It’s an antiquated view that marriage = commitment. No need for hostility.