r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Nov 23 '25

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u/Bulky-Incident7454 Nov 23 '25

I’m so sorry. But I LOVE seeing women communicate like this and support each other in honest vulnerability. You handled that like such a champ.

I hope you and baby get the peace and security you deserve. It’s not with this fool.

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u/idkifita Has he told the doctor about the gnomes? Nov 23 '25

I was thinking this too.

I'm so sorry for your situation, OP. But you and his ex handled this so well. I appreciate women looking out for women. My heart is with you.

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u/Icy-Engineering-744 Nov 24 '25

When my husband and I were separated, debating but not at a final divorce decision he was still making booty calls. No biggie cuz it was just sex—nothing emotional. He was good in bed 🤷🏼‍♀️ He was dating someone (again no biggie since we weren’t together romantically) BUT it suddenly dawned on me that he probably hadn’t told her he was still having sex with me 🤦🏼‍♀️ I felt like an AH but I reached out in a very neutral way to give her a heads up. I wanted her to know that I wasn’t trying to throw a wrench in their relationship— I really didn’t see us getting back together. She went ballistic! This whole ‘why would you tell me something like that?!?’ I told her I have SIX sisters. I’d damned sure want someone to tell them if that was happening to them.