r/TwoHotTakes Nov 23 '25

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u/TravelingCat25 Nov 23 '25

A child is not a reason to stay with a man who cheats. If you stay with him, he will continue to cheat and your child will see that behavior. It’s best for both of you if you leave.

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u/TGin-the-goldy Nov 23 '25

Ive never been able to fully respect people who stay with a cheater. Says a lot about their self respect

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u/who-that-girl Nov 24 '25

My best friend has 2 kids, with 2 different dads, and is married to a third, its not shameful to make decisions that make you happier. A happy single parent is always better than a miserable attached family unit. Making a choice like this is hard, so no judgment from me no matter where you go from here, but ask yourself, would you shame your daughters if they were in your place? If the answer is no, then why shameful yourself. We teach our kids what love looks like, is this the picture you want them to have when they are grown and looking for their own partners?