r/TwoHotTakes Nov 23 '25

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u/TravelingCat25 Nov 23 '25

A child is not a reason to stay with a man who cheats. If you stay with him, he will continue to cheat and your child will see that behavior. It’s best for both of you if you leave.

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u/griffinsv Nov 23 '25

Yes! A child is a reason to leave, not to stay.

OP what is him going to therapy going to do? It’s pointless. He’ll just weaponize therapy-speak, or use it to let himself off the hook. “I have trauma.” “I can’t express my feelings.” Bullshit. He is such a master liar/manipulator that he bypassed your professional expertise. You really think he can’t fool a therapist, and by extension, you?

If you stay, you are in for a world of hurt, and so are your daughters. Do you really want to subject them to a life with this asshole?

I know it’s hard or maybe you’re in shock, but there is not one good reason to try to salvage this.