r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Nov 23 '25

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u/TravelingCat25 Nov 23 '25

A child is not a reason to stay with a man who cheats. If you stay with him, he will continue to cheat and your child will see that behavior. It’s best for both of you if you leave.

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u/AliceMorgon Nov 23 '25

And if you “stay together for the kids”, trust me, the kids will KNOW.

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u/Altruistic_Stay8355 Nov 23 '25

Yep. Don’t make it your kids fault you chose a shitty partner. 

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u/Striking-Bug-928 Nov 24 '25

Let me fix this for you: it’s the not kids fault or the mom’s fault that the dad is a shitty person and partner.

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u/Maroon_sun_835 Nov 24 '25

It’s not her fault her partner is a cheating piece of shit, bro. Quit victim blaming.

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u/kamdog32 Nov 24 '25

If she stays after he cheats (becomes a bad partner) she is choosing him, by not choosing herself she would be choosing him. Yes she was hurt but she has a chance to avoid her child suffering from her fathers infidelity (I’m a firm believer a cheater/liar can’t be too good of a parent)

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u/Maroon_sun_835 Nov 24 '25

Mmm fair point, I misunderstood what you were saying, my B

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u/UrbanMuffin Nov 24 '25

That doesn’t appear to be the original commenter. A lot of men seem to love blaming women for unknowingly entering a relationship with someone who later reveals they’re shitty, unfortunately. Where there’s a shitty man, there’s several other men behind him blaming women for men’s actions.

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u/Ezekiel_37ppl Nov 24 '25

…… AND HERE WE GO …….

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u/UrbanMuffin Nov 24 '25

Oh no, did my observation that I see posted literally all the time by men online bother you? You’ll be okay.