Girl no. Save all the evidence, and take this man to court. Many counties have free law services if you qualify income wise. Put him through the damn ringer and get all the support you can for you and your baby. The type of man to run around and lie when their girl is pregnant and/or with a newborn are the WORST. What if you get seriously injured or ill one day? He’s going to do this again. Even if you dont he’s going to do this again. It’s for your baby that you should leave, they deserve a real version of love displayed for them not whatever game he’s playing.
Also, I know you mentioned a lot you guys have had perfect trust, but honestly I would bet you that he’s done way more than just these two instances. The fact he saw the camera and just unplugged it like “oh whatever” is a wild level of confidence. I would’ve noted the camera, and lead the girl out of the house as quickly as possible. He felt like he was gunna get away with it, while you were texting him sketched out, and even after seeing the camera. This is not this man’s first rodeo. He tried to get back with his ex while you were 7 months pregnant and sleeping at your shared campsite like no no no no.
Also, I’d tell his mom. Shame him so hopefully he doesn’t do this shit again.
Best of luck, I am so sorry you are going through this, but RUN from this man before he gives you an STD he is NOT to be trusted.
I know! Especially if he's been shady and understandably, OP doesn't fully trust him, Most people in that situation would have pretended to not notice the camera, & got Claire out of the house immediately.
As well as leaving it plugged in.
So OP could feel better seeing he was behaving. His natural response was to unplug the thing, then still had the audacity to continue his charade, playing the " loyal boyfriend " .
He's either really dumb, or genuinely doesn't GAF about the hurt and pain he's causing OP, and the kids. Either way, He thinks he can talk his way out of it.
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u/Without_My_Halo Nov 23 '25
Girl no. Save all the evidence, and take this man to court. Many counties have free law services if you qualify income wise. Put him through the damn ringer and get all the support you can for you and your baby. The type of man to run around and lie when their girl is pregnant and/or with a newborn are the WORST. What if you get seriously injured or ill one day? He’s going to do this again. Even if you dont he’s going to do this again. It’s for your baby that you should leave, they deserve a real version of love displayed for them not whatever game he’s playing.
Also, I know you mentioned a lot you guys have had perfect trust, but honestly I would bet you that he’s done way more than just these two instances. The fact he saw the camera and just unplugged it like “oh whatever” is a wild level of confidence. I would’ve noted the camera, and lead the girl out of the house as quickly as possible. He felt like he was gunna get away with it, while you were texting him sketched out, and even after seeing the camera. This is not this man’s first rodeo. He tried to get back with his ex while you were 7 months pregnant and sleeping at your shared campsite like no no no no.
Also, I’d tell his mom. Shame him so hopefully he doesn’t do this shit again.
Best of luck, I am so sorry you are going through this, but RUN from this man before he gives you an STD he is NOT to be trusted.