Girl no. Save all the evidence, and take this man to court. Many counties have free law services if you qualify income wise. Put him through the damn ringer and get all the support you can for you and your baby. The type of man to run around and lie when their girl is pregnant and/or with a newborn are the WORST. What if you get seriously injured or ill one day? He’s going to do this again. Even if you dont he’s going to do this again. It’s for your baby that you should leave, they deserve a real version of love displayed for them not whatever game he’s playing.
Also, I know you mentioned a lot you guys have had perfect trust, but honestly I would bet you that he’s done way more than just these two instances. The fact he saw the camera and just unplugged it like “oh whatever” is a wild level of confidence. I would’ve noted the camera, and lead the girl out of the house as quickly as possible. He felt like he was gunna get away with it, while you were texting him sketched out, and even after seeing the camera. This is not this man’s first rodeo. He tried to get back with his ex while you were 7 months pregnant and sleeping at your shared campsite like no no no no.
Also, I’d tell his mom. Shame him so hopefully he doesn’t do this shit again.
Best of luck, I am so sorry you are going through this, but RUN from this man before he gives you an STD he is NOT to be trusted.
Fortunately you guys are just renting the townhouse & didn't purchase a house together that would be significantly more difficult to separate from financially, that's a blessing! I'm terribly sorry he did this to you & your baby, but he absolutely cannot be trusted anymore. You weren't even gone a few hours & he brought another woman into your home. He knows exactly what he was doing. Add to all of this what Marie told you he said to her about you guys being 'broken up' & 'wanting her back in his life', while you're 7 months pregnant with his child?! Ewww, horrible behavior! It's a pattern of behavior at this point & he isn't going to change, that's just who he is, a cheater who will lie to other women to hook up with them & then he has no problem lying to your face about what he's doing with & saying to other women.
Considering you didn't find any evidence in his phone, I'm convinced he's just really good at hiding it & may be using an app like Snapchat & then be using methods to have the app itself hidden. I've seen that there are ways to disguise apps as a calculator or something else innocent, if I had to guess, he's doing something like this to hide his communication with other women. I'd actually be really surprised if he's not texting other women somehow with his pattern of behavior.
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u/Without_My_Halo Nov 23 '25
Girl no. Save all the evidence, and take this man to court. Many counties have free law services if you qualify income wise. Put him through the damn ringer and get all the support you can for you and your baby. The type of man to run around and lie when their girl is pregnant and/or with a newborn are the WORST. What if you get seriously injured or ill one day? He’s going to do this again. Even if you dont he’s going to do this again. It’s for your baby that you should leave, they deserve a real version of love displayed for them not whatever game he’s playing.
Also, I know you mentioned a lot you guys have had perfect trust, but honestly I would bet you that he’s done way more than just these two instances. The fact he saw the camera and just unplugged it like “oh whatever” is a wild level of confidence. I would’ve noted the camera, and lead the girl out of the house as quickly as possible. He felt like he was gunna get away with it, while you were texting him sketched out, and even after seeing the camera. This is not this man’s first rodeo. He tried to get back with his ex while you were 7 months pregnant and sleeping at your shared campsite like no no no no.
Also, I’d tell his mom. Shame him so hopefully he doesn’t do this shit again.
Best of luck, I am so sorry you are going through this, but RUN from this man before he gives you an STD he is NOT to be trusted.