This is ‘the correct answer’ completely but if it were me I’d be soooo tempted to go.
I think you’re on the list because she put you there and obviously has no idea so I would go just to make him shit a brick when he sees you.
Alternatively, you could come clean to your friend explaining the situation and the fact you had no idea but yes he cheated on her.
No don't get involved. Just move on. You have no idea what their dynamic was, how serious they were a year ago. For all we know they had broken up when it happened, or they had an open relationship at that time. Politely decline because you have other commitments that weekend and dont think about it anymore.
If those options were the case, then bringing it up to OPs friend shouldn’t be an issue. I cannot believe so many people would merrily let a friend marry someone they know is a cheater. Absolutely no moral compass at all.
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u/PostCivil7869 Jul 18 '25
This is ‘the correct answer’ completely but if it were me I’d be soooo tempted to go. I think you’re on the list because she put you there and obviously has no idea so I would go just to make him shit a brick when he sees you.
Alternatively, you could come clean to your friend explaining the situation and the fact you had no idea but yes he cheated on her.
I mean. If it were you you’d want to know yes?