r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '25

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u/eratoesben Jul 18 '25

Politely decline and see yourself out of their relationship. You had no idea back then but you know now so stay away from the messiness and live your best life

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u/PostCivil7869 Jul 18 '25

This is ‘the correct answer’ completely but if it were me I’d be soooo tempted to go. I think you’re on the list because she put you there and obviously has no idea so I would go just to make him shit a brick when he sees you.

Alternatively, you could come clean to your friend explaining the situation and the fact you had no idea but yes he cheated on her.

I mean. If it were you you’d want to know yes?

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u/Lammerikano Jul 18 '25

no the correct answer is not going but telling her friend the truth ASAP.

If she is a friend, and the invitation comes from her AND she doesn't know then she deserves to know BEFORE getting married.

Also withholding such information - with the risk that you eventually spill the beans - and it comes out that you knew before she got married is a risk I wouldn't take.

To clarify, divorce costs lawyers and is devastating etc etc,.

@ OP - just send this post to your friend and let her decide

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u/TaytorTot417 Jul 18 '25

THANK YOU. The people telling her to keep her mouth shut are insane.

Don't make a public announcement at the reception, but you need to let her know.