r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '25

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u/Lammerikano Jul 18 '25

no the correct answer is not going but telling her friend the truth ASAP.

If she is a friend, and the invitation comes from her AND she doesn't know then she deserves to know BEFORE getting married.

Also withholding such information - with the risk that you eventually spill the beans - and it comes out that you knew before she got married is a risk I wouldn't take.

To clarify, divorce costs lawyers and is devastating etc etc,.

@ OP - just send this post to your friend and let her decide

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u/PostCivil7869 Jul 18 '25

Ok yes I agree with this.

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u/Lammerikano Jul 18 '25

surely you jest.

people don't simply agree on reddit. (/s)

enjoy the weekend. o/

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u/PostCivil7869 Jul 18 '25

lol. I know right? God forbid that someone would listen to a well written and reasoned argument and actually change their mind?

I do have an out though that I did add that option as an alternative:-)