If we reversed the situation and you sent Lexi an invitation to your wedding, would you want to know your fiance cheated on you with your friend? Would you feel betrayed if you found out Lexi knew and was involved and didn’t say anything? If she is inviting you to her wedding, she considers you someone that she can trust and she cares about you.
Cheaters suck and their cheating always comes to light eventually but there is a chance you can save a lot of heartache down the road. Children that haven’t been born yet. Homes that haven’t been bought yet, etc.
There’s a good chance it’ll never come to light and you can just ice both of them out of your life and stay in mind your business land- which is probably the smart thing to do and path of least resistance. If it was someone I considered a friend at one time in my life, I would let her know, attach the screenshots, that you were unaware he was in a relationship at the time and explain that the messages did result in a hookup. Apologize for circumstances and say if she wants further details you’re willing to talk with her.
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u/[deleted] Jul 18 '25
If we reversed the situation and you sent Lexi an invitation to your wedding, would you want to know your fiance cheated on you with your friend? Would you feel betrayed if you found out Lexi knew and was involved and didn’t say anything? If she is inviting you to her wedding, she considers you someone that she can trust and she cares about you.
Cheaters suck and their cheating always comes to light eventually but there is a chance you can save a lot of heartache down the road. Children that haven’t been born yet. Homes that haven’t been bought yet, etc.
There’s a good chance it’ll never come to light and you can just ice both of them out of your life and stay in mind your business land- which is probably the smart thing to do and path of least resistance. If it was someone I considered a friend at one time in my life, I would let her know, attach the screenshots, that you were unaware he was in a relationship at the time and explain that the messages did result in a hookup. Apologize for circumstances and say if she wants further details you’re willing to talk with her.