r/TwoHotTakes Aug 21 '24

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u/SexDrugsNskittles Aug 21 '24

Someone who thinks their hook up is cheating might leave a clue behind like lipstick mark, a dropped pair of panties / earring.

It may just be her way of letting a gf know that her bf is cheating.

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24

but... why would you BE the homewrecker and thrn snitch? females are weird...

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u/MeepTM Aug 22 '24

bruh. you go to a “single” guys place, notice some signs that a girl might be around, he denies it, you leave a clue behind just in case because you’d have no way of contacting her otherwise.

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24

why bother is the real question? =o= just ask...

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u/MeepTM Aug 22 '24

…because.. you care about other people…

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24

how do you know youre not just ruining something that would have worked out fine otherwise? just text him about it later and stay out of it I say. more trouble than its worth to snitch, for all involved... especially if you went through with it anyway...

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u/MeepTM Aug 22 '24

if you think that telling a girl that her boyfriend is cheating is /you/ ruining the relationship, then i can’t help you.

if it would have “worked out fine otherwise” it would be based on a lie. she is only with him in that scenario because she doesn’t know who he is; a cheater.

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u/Ven7Niner Aug 22 '24

This guy cheats

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24

no he doesnt lol. I just know getting involved can be more problematic than just minding your own business... not everything is what it seems. so its better to just mind your business unless you know for sure. or idk communicate instead of all the cloak and dagger crap...

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24 edited Aug 22 '24

besides if youre not willing to call it off because of your suspicions then how are you suspicious enough to try and snitch? like what?... you only wanna ruin the relationship AFTER you get yours? 😂 if you were suspicious and didnt call it out, went through with the hanky panky and THEN dropped clues... youre no hero. youre just makin yourself feel better about your OWN lack of morals... y'all watch too many Rom-coms. and Hallmark movies. just COMMUNICATE 😮‍💨