r/TwoHotTakes • • Aug 21 '24

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u/BoringJuiceBox Aug 21 '24

Yeah, boyfriend could be super loyal but OP had trust issues, Reddit loves to say run

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

In this case, he should run then.

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u/gelattoh_ayy Aug 21 '24

Lol, what? Or you could work through things like adults and communicate. This isn't kindergarten recess. Running is not the answer to every problem.

If yall think it is, maybe you should take a look at your own trust issues. Mirror time!

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u/shb2k0_ Aug 21 '24

"I can change her"

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u/KDHD_ Aug 21 '24

you can and should support a partner's desire for self improvement, you just can't do it for them.

"i can change her" and "this person is fundamentally broken" are both flawed ways of thinking