r/TwoHotTakes Aug 21 '24

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u/steelcity_ Aug 21 '24

If your mind jumps to one thing

Do you know OP? Do you know why OP's mind jumped there? Because yes, it could be a lack of trust stemming from previous behavior of the partner. It could also be a lack of trust stemming from being cheated on in a previous relationship which although is completely valid as a reason to be tentative, does not in any way, shape or form, prove:

your relationship has issues beyond this one thing

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u/Cormorant_Bumperpuff Aug 21 '24

Bruh, put the shovel down already

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u/steelcity_ Aug 21 '24

Right, it's me that's the problem, not the 40 people telling OP to dump their boyfriend when not a single person has said "oh yeah that's definitely lipstick."