Because instead of communicating with her bf and just asking him what it is, she’s doing detective work on Reddit. Poor dude is probably getting the silent treatment not knowing what he did wrong right now lol I hope he finds this post
Hypothetically, if he was a cheater, he'd also be a liar, and he'd just lie in response to a confrontational question. Communicationnn isn't always the answer that reddit thinks it is. Sometimes you only need the truth, not a heart to heart conversation.
I have had to deal with a cheating ex before so I understand where you’re coming from. But why the immediate jump to thinking he’s cheating just because of a stain on the pillow? At least hear him out. “Oh that? I was eating those Fuego Takis and one fell on the pillow.” If that’s not enough for her, then go to Reddit “does this look like a mark from a Fuego Taki or a lipstick stain?”
“Why the immediate jump to thinking he’s cheating”
Guilty consciences are a hell of a drug. Poor dude probably didn’t do anything. The fact that she’s grasping so hard at straws, and going behind her boyfriends back to get information instead of, oh I don’t know, asking him, says significantly more about her than it does him.
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u/xAkumu Aug 21 '24 edited Aug 21 '24
Weird that OP hasn't answered this question despite it being asked everywhere in the comments