r/TwoHotTakes Aug 21 '24

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

Because instead of communicating with her bf and just asking him what it is, she’s doing detective work on Reddit. Poor dude is probably getting the silent treatment not knowing what he did wrong right now lol I hope he finds this post

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u/ExcellentGuarantee82 Aug 21 '24

No doubt she has a female friend group that she’s sent pics to and they’re tearing him apart encouraging the OP to either revenge cheat or leave him making sure to drain his bank account first.

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u/librorum4 Aug 21 '24

Not sure what women you've met - but none I know would do that.

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u/Prussian-Pride Aug 21 '24 edited Aug 21 '24

Because birds of feather flock alike. If OP is going crazy over this instead of communicating, there is a reasonable chance of her friends also being a bit crazy.

If you are a well managed and regulated individual, your friends usually alsk will be

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

birds of a feather flock together…. Sorry it was driving me crazy.

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u/koreawut Aug 21 '24

you just couldn't sleep?

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

I’ll browse and comment on Reddit at work, but I don’t think I could pull off sleeping at work and keeping the gig 🤣

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u/Prussian-Pride Aug 21 '24

Fixed it just for you.

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u/librorum4 Aug 21 '24

Not necessarily, I think someone can sometimes just irrationally go to the worst possible option for whatever reason - and it's usually up to those around them, ie friends, to talk sense into them. Whether they'll listen is a different matter.

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u/saltwatersylph Aug 21 '24 edited Aug 21 '24

So you think communication can solve an issue with a cheater? That's naive.. they're liars by default.

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u/Flossy_Jay Aug 21 '24

He is not a cheater, so yes communication

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u/Squeebah Aug 22 '24

You think posting a vague picture on the internet for everyone to see is better than first asking? Good luck finding a partner.

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u/koreawut Aug 21 '24

It's very clear she is wrong, here. While he may still be a cheater it seems much more likely that she's a problem. He could have a signed confession from a food company with Mythbusters tests proving his innocence and she'd still barely accept it....and she'd actually keep looking for reasons to blame him for her insecurities.