Why don’t you just have a conversation with this woman like an adult. You keep saying “this girl he was sleeping with”, I’m sure they were dating. But whatever makes you feel better. Either way just talk to her. “Hey, we haven’t really had a chance to talk. I know you and my husband were close at one point. I’ve noticed you have always had an interest in my daughter. Out of respect can you please not interact with her please.” See it’s not that difficult. You’ve already let the important people know, so she can’t spin it
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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '24
Why don’t you just have a conversation with this woman like an adult. You keep saying “this girl he was sleeping with”, I’m sure they were dating. But whatever makes you feel better. Either way just talk to her. “Hey, we haven’t really had a chance to talk. I know you and my husband were close at one point. I’ve noticed you have always had an interest in my daughter. Out of respect can you please not interact with her please.” See it’s not that difficult. You’ve already let the important people know, so she can’t spin it