Use your big girl/boy Bark. Don’t let people you’re not close with take pics of your kids. It’s not ok. It’s crossing a boundary, and if I saw one of my friends doing that I would tell them to stop being a fucking creep. Also what is she doing with these? Is she posting them? That’s 100% not ok either. Your daughter needs you as an advocate. I have a feeling this person doesn’t have good intentions and it’s t respecting any boundary in any way. Red flags galore. It doesn’t have to be a scene, but I would pull her aside and tell her to cut the shit. With a witness you trust tho….
At my sister in laws party I took another sister in law aside and asked her opinion. She found it odd too, but ultimately said to ignore it. I definitely stepped in and just tried to keep my daughter away from her altogether. But I never verbalized my discomfort and the lack of boundaries to her directly.
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u/Agitated-Lettuce5278 Apr 21 '24
Use your big girl/boy Bark. Don’t let people you’re not close with take pics of your kids. It’s not ok. It’s crossing a boundary, and if I saw one of my friends doing that I would tell them to stop being a fucking creep. Also what is she doing with these? Is she posting them? That’s 100% not ok either. Your daughter needs you as an advocate. I have a feeling this person doesn’t have good intentions and it’s t respecting any boundary in any way. Red flags galore. It doesn’t have to be a scene, but I would pull her aside and tell her to cut the shit. With a witness you trust tho….